I'm enjoying Paul Tripp's book, Age of Opportunity about parenting teens. It's a companion to Ted Tripp's Shepherding a Child's Heart. The message of the book is really captured in the title. Every conflict or confrontation with your teenager is an opportunity to minister the gospel to his or her life. I am soon going to have a teen, so I'm preparing now for these "opportunities."
One of the most interesting and helpful sections in the book is about helping someone distinguish between what Tripp calls Clear-Boundary Issues or Wisdom Issues. Clear-Boundary Issues have to do with commands that are obvious from Scripture. "The call to speak the truth, to honor father and mother, to not steal or commit adultery or fornication are all examples." Most of the time, Tripp argues, believers wretle with wisdom issue. Areas where Scripture does not give a clear cut answer. He points this out because one of the jobs of parents is to help teenagers wrestle with wisdom.
But I want to go back to the Clear-Boundary Issues section for a moment. I think that Tripp's words are very helpful for those who fall repeatedly into sin. Is there an area of life where you are suffering from a pattern of sinful behavior and your are struggling to stop, but you seem to be failing? Could it be that you know what your are doing is wrong, but your knowledge is weak? Could it be that you have failed to develop a true biblical conviction. The concrete of your morality has been so-watered down whenever you are faced with temptation you just sink.
Tripp lays out six characteristics of biblical conviction. These are worth thinking about as you go to war against your sin.
1. A biblical conviction is always based on a study of, submission to, and application of Scripture.
2. A biblical conviction is always predetermined. In other words, you don't develop convictions on the fly. As you study the Word and find what God has determined is God's will for your life in an ethical area (e.g., cheating is never an option) even before you are faced with a particular temptation (e.g., the teacher leaves the answerbook open on the counter and leaves the room).
3. A biblical conviction will not change with circumstances.
4. Biblical convictions are inflexible.
5. True biblical conviction is bold.
6. True biblical conviction is always lived out. I like this. If you real do hold something to be a biblical conviction, time will prove it!
May the Lord help us develop and apply biblical convictions to our lives each and every day.